I sat on the windowsill with a glass of wine, trying to recall the Aphorism of the Codo Sevaki about deception in order to quote her friend. We once again discussed the topic of why men lie and how to distinguish a deception. And in general, is it a deception? We have different opinions and relationships on this issue with her.
It seems to me that not all people tell you, you need to take seriously and believe every word. And often, a compliment from a man, does not mean anything. A person simply shows politeness and does not need to be regarded as an offer of a marriage and heart. So in my opinion, men do not lie, we sometimes incorrectly perceive information.
Oh, and here the quote surfaced in my memory: “The one who has a great desire is easy to deceive” Core Sevaki. I liked this phrase very much.
Sex is not a reason for marriage
A friend is desperately looking for a person with whom you can create a family. And each time it stumbles on the same rake. Getting acquainted with the man, she clearly feels his interest. And I do not know that this interest is. Girlfriend is quite an interesting girl. But everything ends deplorable. The man disappears every time after sex. And she begins to suffer, not understanding why this is happening. After all, he said so many pleasant things. Including marriage and love. In such situations, a person has a great resentment against men and self -doubt. And for me everything is much easier. You just need to change the mother of behavior.
If you still think that you are lying, here are some tips on how to protect yourself:
The compliments should be easily treated without giving them great importance. Words about the fact that you are beautiful, do not interpret how I love you.
By nature of men hunters. Having received sex on the first date, he will most likely lose interest in you. There are still such thoughts that if you have decided so quickly with him, then with others you have the same. Subconscious jealousy and distrust arise. This does not contribute to the creation of a family.
If you still decide for sex too fast, do not wait for continuation. You yourself wanted it. Since the man, you enjoyed, new sensations. He did not force you, but seduced. It seems to me that there can be no offense at him. You just succumbed to your desires and his spells.
If you are immediately told about feelings, do not take it too seriously and literally. Falling in love at first sight, of course, is possible, but nevertheless it sometimes looks strange.
But are we always honest with men? We are deceiving them? “All life is a game, and we are actors in this life”. Each of us plays a role. We always have a choice to do one way or another. And if we are deceived, then this is our desire. So sometimes it’s nice to be deceived.
