There are as many loved ones as the world exists. And despite such a long history, this topic still excites humanity. And we, having lost sensitivity to a lot, which worried our ancestors, we cannot get used to treason. She still wounds. Oddly enough, and the one who is cheated, and the one who is cheating. And it’s even hard to say who remains more devastated.
Understand and accept that you were seriously betrayed. This wound in the soul remains for a long time. But is it harder to understand that you destroyed faith in a person. You essentially killed a child in it. Someone at this time can buy original bouquets from toys and come to put up, repent and ask for forgiveness, and someone on the contrary will wait for him to repent and ask for forgiveness. It is at this moment that it is necessary to realize your role.
After all, loving, we forget about the difficulties and cruelty of the outside world. We trust our beloved all of ourselves. As in childhood, when it seemed that mother could save you and protect you from any universal evil. We also believe a loved one. He turns into the same all -powerfully superman, with whom it is so calm and reliable. And suddenly this almost God turns into a banal deceiver. In a small, naughty liar who hides his eyes and babbles unconvincing excuses.
So is it a thirst for new sensations of such a spiritual collapse? Of course, it is possible that your loved one will never know anything, or even having learned, will pretend that nothing is happening. But for yourself in the soul you will understand that you are a barbarian-destroyer. That you destroy yourself every day, your image of the most.
You can not enter the same river twice. You can be forgiven, but you will not believe anyone unconditionally. Such trust is born only once. Maybe this is the biggest value of human relations?
