We will not talk about the reasons, but consider the fact that the girl was left alone with the child. Does she have a chance to establish her personal life? If there is, how great this chance is?
Men, as a rule, are reluctant to start relationships with girls who already have children. The reasons for this may be a mass. But there are those who believe that there are no other people’s children and are happy to take up your child. How to distinguish some others and when to talk about children?
You meet a guy who is very interested in you. Of course, he takes your phone number or immediately invites on a date. How to be?
Option one. Say about the child.
A man, of course, does not want to look like an insensitive cattle and will continue to insist on a date in any case (otherwise it will be below his dignity – to abandon his proposals). Perhaps he will even offer not to put off for tomorrow, but to go on a date right now. The case may end with a rented apartment for a day in Buguruslan and a promise to call back. The further script is known.
Option Second. Do not talk about the child yet.
This option is still with a more confusing ending. Without saying about the child right away, you will not know how to say in the second and, maybe even for the third time. And when it turns out for the same time, you will still remain guilty (more precisely, the man will make you one). Like, what I didn’t say right away, you wanted to lie to me, but I can’t stand it and it is all over between us. Although the present reason will rather be the presence of a child in your life.
What to do? Is it really impossible for a woman with a child to arrange her life?
It’s simple – get acquainted in the moments where you are with the child. Meet the parks or in the line in the clinic, in supermarkets and other places an accumulation of people. The main thing is not to focus on the fact that you are a single mother. A child is not a sentence and not a reason to put a cross on your personal life. And do not row everyone under one comb. There will be one who will understand, love and warm it with warmth, which is enough for two – for you and your child. And then everything will be followed: real estate, and a wedding, and a common child ..
