The birth of a child is always an exciting and joyful event in the life of parents, relatives and friends of the family. A small creature that was born is so defenseless that the first desire when you look at it is to do everything you need for a happy life of a newborn. Accordingly, and all the surrounding children should only be the best.
Especially before buying expensive toys and clothes for a beloved grandson, happy grandfathers and grandmothers cannot resist. Diapers, covers, hats and sliders – all this is bought up in huge quantities. Young parents receive similar gifts from all relatives, and most often it happens that many of them the baby does not have time to vilify, because he quickly grows up. The same goes for toys. Each visit or a walk on the street ends for a child to get a doll or machine.
Over time, he gets used to such presentations and each appearance of a grandmother or aunt is accompanied by the expectation of a surprise. Such a seemingly harmless and good intention of an adult to please the baby leads to the fact that he ceases to appreciate his toys and gifts in general. In such a situation, it is very difficult to explain to the child that it is necessary to take care of a soft bear or doll, because he is used to the fact that if one machine breaks down, he will immediately receive another.
Psychologists and teachers advise not to accustom the child that all his whims will be fulfilled and not fulfill every request to buy your favorite toy. This can educate him in the wrong perception of the world. It is advisable to make large birthday gifts for children and for the New Year, and if you want to please the baby for no reason, then it is best to give an interesting book, an album for drawing, puzzle or designer. These things will not only give pleasure and joy from the presentation, but will benefit in the development of thinking, memory or motor skills.
If you see that the child does not show the interest that you expected to be the puzzle or book you have, then try to interest the baby – play with him, tell an interesting story related to this subject. When choosing purchases for a child, avoid too bright colors – they may not be safe for the baby’s health. If he became interested in a particular machine or doll, but you are not sure of its quality, try to switch the child’s attention to better. When buying children’s things, you definitely need to ask the seller a certificate of reliability and compliance with the GOSTs of the chosen product and only after that make a purchase.
